The book provides helpful strategies and tools to help you be intentional in connecting with your child's heart, developing Scripture-directed conscience and building godly character in him/her. The authors help parents see that spiritual training not only doable but also enjoyable. I like the evaluation form at the end of Chapter 3 which helps me keep track of what areas of the conscience (do what's right, deal with wrongs, be honest, and care about others) my children need improvement on (I also use it to pray specifically for my children). I highly recommend this book which in my opinion, is one of the best parenting books available! Insightful, practical, and encouraging! I only wish I had read this book when my kids were younger.
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"What parents say leaves a marked impression on their children's hearts...A parent's words are important in a child's life. They linger in the heart and become food for the conscience." (p. 21, 31)
"Asking teens, 'What's your plan?' instead of barging in and demanding instant obedience can be a way of teaching them to be responsible. It passes the responsibility on to the child to help determine details and to remember to get things done." (p. 51)
"Just because someone feels a sense of peace about something, it doesn't make it right...A trained conscience feeds off the Scriptures. Not all actions have a Bible verse to point to, but a growing knowledge of God's Word produces an internal sense of obligation to do what's right." (p. 54)
"The point we're trying to teach children is that correction is a valuable tool in their lives, and it's a way to learn and grow. God wants us to learn from our mistakes, not beat ourselves up or attack other people." (p. 64)
"If you want your kids to fly straight, teach them obedience. If you want them to fly high, teach them honor...Obedience gets the job done, but honor deals with how that job is done." (p. 85, 88)
"The role of the conscience and the Holy Spirit is to provide guidance for the heart and keep it moving in the right direction." (p. 100)
"There are many good and godly ways to raise children. Just because one technique works with another child doesn't mean it will work with yours. Tailoring a plan for each child will consider specific needs and challenges, resulting i more effective parenting strategies." (p. 110)
"Passing on the faith is more than imparting biblical knowledge or explaining theology. It's living it out. When children see faith lived out in the everyday activities of life, they're more apt to catch it. " (p. 142)
"A strong family seeks to bless others, cares for others, and helps them find God in tangible ways. In short, the family is a place where children become disciples of Jesus Christ so they can impact the world. They learn how to become disciple-makers themselves." (p. 160-161)
About the Authors:
Joanne Miller is a pediatric nurse with 26 years of experience and the cofounder of the National Center for Biblical Parenting. She is the coauthor of seven parenting books.
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